Engraved on the Stone

Day 34: Yesterday was just another day in our life. Can't honestly remember much.

Day 35: Today I decided that I am putting all of me into this. I had already decided this on some level but today I really decided to let myself be here and present. I know that I can only control me and ultimately my husband is the one who is going to decide whether or not our marriage works. I am here. I never left. I am giving everything to fix this. I have a lot of hope.

More on this later.

Engraved on the Stone

Two friends were walking through the desert.
During some point of the journey,
They had an argument;
And one friend slapped the other one in the face.

The one who got slapped was hurt,
But without saying anything,
Wrote in the sand:
"Today my best friend
Slapped me in the face."

They kept on walking,
Until they found an oasis,
Where they decided to take a bath
The one who had been slapped
Got stuck in the mire and started drowning,
But the friend saved him.

After he recovered from the near drowning,
He wrote on a stone:
"Today my best friend
Saved my life."

The friend who had slapped
And saved his best friend asked him,
"After I hurt you,
You wrote in the sand and now,
You write on a stone, why?"

The friend replied
"When someone hurts us
We should write it down in sand,
Where winds of forgiveness can erase it away.
But, when someone does something good for us,
We must engrave it in stone
Where no wind can ever erase it."

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Learn to write your hurts in the sand
And to carve your benefits on the stone.

330 days.